MESSAGE-PASSING:  PART OF THE JOURNEY TO EMPOWERED COMMUNICATION

Mayer Shevin

Facilitated Communication Institute

Annegret Schubert

Syracuse University 
[Editor's Note:  This article is taken from a presentation of the same title, given by the authors at the Syracuse FC conference, May, 2000.] 

 
 

What is message-passing?

At its most basic, message-passing involves one person conveying previously unknown information to another.  Although message-passing has been a large component of many of the studies examining the authorship issue in facilitated communication, message-passing goes far beyond the issue of authorship validation.  It is, rather, a routine component in the everyday communication of most people.  At its most basic level, the message-passing of concern in this paper must include at least four components: Of course, message-passing is always at least a two-way interaction, involving at least two active participants.  By noting the existence of all four components identified above, we remind ourselves  that the effectiveness of message-passing in a given situation can be impacted by any of these aspects.  For example, the FC user needs skills in initiating and sustaining precise communication.  The listener should be able to draw out the speaker, should be alert to ambiguities in the communication, and should use effective strategies to resolve them.  The object of the message should lend itself to the speaker's skills in terms of complexity, interest, previous experience in describing it, and so forth.  And the context should be one which maximizes time and focus, and minimizes tension, risk, and distraction, as a way of optimizing the communication.  Complications in any of these areas may make successful message-passing challenging or impossible.

A part of everyone's communication

Many FC users have had the dramatic experience of having their communication subjected to intense critical scrutiny.  For some people, this scrutiny has taken the form of spontaneous, improvised message-passing tasks ("Tell your mom the word I just whispered in your ear,") or of more formalized validation studies (IDRP 1989; Wheeler et al., 1993).  For many people in the FC community, message-passing has come to be associated with notions of  skepticism concerning one's ability to communicate, adversarial interactions among important people in one's life, and even the possible risk of losing one's "voice" if the task is failed.  For people with such associations, message-passing may be seen as a trial to be borne reluctantly when absolutely necessary, but to be avoided whenever possible. This stance, while understandable, is a limiting one, preventing people from acquiring a set of skills which are an important requisite for "full citizenship" in the community of communicators.

Message-passing is not some onerous initiation rite for which FC users are singled out.  Rather it is an important skill in the repertoire of all fully participatory members of the community.  It is through message-passing that we make our knowledge known.  Through message-passing we connect with others, we become known as reliable people and as truth tellers.

For most members of the communicating community, message-passing skills were ones we acquired through gentle (and, sometimes, not-so-gentle) practice and correction during our pre-school years. Most of us learned to build accuracy in telling about events our listener had not witnessed.  We learned to modify what we said depending on which referents we might share with our listeners (To one person, we might say, "Joe and I went to the movie yesterday"; to another, we might say "I went to the movie with Joe yesterday -- he's my older brother.")  We learned about the power and the risks associated with lying -- both the social premium placed on honesty and those places in which withholding or misreporting information is expected and valued.  We learned to distinguish, in our own minds and in our conversations, between reality and fantasy, between what we had seen and what we were wishing for or dreading.  As we became more sophisticated, we learned to mark and qualify our messages, making our claims of accuracy and truthfulness concerning those messages explicit ("I think the teacher told us to read all of Chapter 4, but I'm not sure I heard her right.")

Because for most of us these skills were acquired and mastered in informal settings, they do not strike us as learned skills, in the way that long division or playing the trombone are learned skills.  We become very aware of the non-automatic nature of these skills, however, in the presence of FC users, who have spent much of their lives as observers rather than as full participants in the communication community.

Not only are these message passing skills common to all full participants in the community of communicators; they are also major determinants of our power and status in that community.  When we are able to pass messages, we are presumed to be believable, clear-thinking, grounded in reality, and responsive.  Without this skill, we may be assumed to be not believable, confused, living in a fantasy world, or oblivious to the world around us.

In addition to issues of status, there is a wide range of practical issues related to how reliable a message passer one is considered to be.   For example, most people know from repeated experience that one may leave phone messages with the children of some of our friends with confidence that the friends will receive those messages in a timely manner; for others, we may know that the children are not message passers in whom we can have any confidence -- we make a repeat phone call ourselves, to make sure our message has actually been received.  People who are not reliable message passers are often "chaperoned" in situations in which they might otherwise be able to participate independently; they may be forced to be public in conversations in which they might otherwise value their privacy.  For example, a teenage boy might have his mother sitting next to him in a conversation with his doctor, because the boy is not considered a reliable source of information; the boy might really prefer the conversation take place without his mother present.

The need for message-passing skills is most clear in the domain of self-advocacy. Annie's Coming Out  (Crossley & McDonald, 1984) documents Anne McDonald's four-year battle to have her profound wish to escape an intolerable institution heard and respected by the state.  Ultimately, her standing as a person allowed to speak on her own behalf rested on her being able to communicate two words which the hearing judge told her in private.  Although many FC users have parents and friends working powerfully on their behalf, self-advocacy is significantly enhanced by being seen as a reliable communicator.  (Reliable communicators are those who are accurate, precise and truthful, who tend to say what they mean to do and who do what they say they will do.)

Special issues for FC users

Certain life experiences held in common by many FC users present barriers to the easy, informal acquisition and refinement of message-passing skills typically experienced by the population at large.  Most people who were taught to use facilitated communication at an older age have spent a significant part of their life as passive observers of communication, rather than as active participants.  Because of this, they have had far less practice and mentoring in these skills than most others their age.  Because of the low expectations that others may have of their abilities in this area, most FC users are unlikely to be given the informal message-passing tasks that are taken for granted for most of us (E.g.: "Go tell your brother that supper is ready.")  Additionally, many FC users, for a variety of reasons, have lives which are predominantly characterized by familiar routine, by a tendency to usually do the same things in the same way.  Because message-passing tends to take place when the speaker and listener have different experiences with relation the the message's object, a life dominated by routine presents few naturally occurring opportunities for informal message-passing practice.  For example, if I see you drink out of an Oktoberfest mug at every meal, it may not be useful message-passing practice to tell me that you drank out of your Oktoberfest mug at lunch today.

Unfortunately, many FC users are at risk of being suddenly and seriously disadvantaged by their lack of experience at effective message passing.  In challenging situations (e.g. when reporting a traumatic incident or a problematic situation; or when one's continued access to facilitation in school or at the workplace is being questioned), many FC users have been called on to demonstrate the validity of their communication within a short period of time.  This is obviously not the best situation in which to acquire and refine message-passing skills, and many people fail to do so.  In turn, such failure may contribute to loss of status, and even to loss of access to opportunities to communicate.

The maintenance of a communication portfolio (Biklen et al, 1995) can be very helpful in documenting one's ongoing record of effective message passing over time.  Additionally, however, we recommend that systematic practice of message-passing skills be made a routine part of skill building practice for FC users from early on in their training.  In the same way that we routinely support people in looking at the keyboard, using spaces and punctuation consistently, and working with decreasing physical support, we can support people in daily message-passing practice.  All of these may not always feel totally comfortable for the FC user, and may require patience and flexibility on the part of the facilitator.  However, all these skills can be incorporated into the practice routine through a facilitator's persistence, through explaining to the FC user the importance of specific skills, and through involving the FC user in the design of how skill practice is to be done.

Successful message-passing:  helpful hints from research

Several FC validation studies have had outcomes which included significant amounts of successful message-passing (IDRP, 1989; Cardinal et al., 1996; Olney, 1997; Weiss et al., 1996; Marcus and Shevin, 1997.)  Although each of these studies followed different procedures, they all contain strategies which can be usefully incorporated into skill-building practice for message-passing.  As different people connect well with different approaches, these strategies are meant to be suggestions, not prescriptions.

Using successful approaches in a message-passing workshop

During a three-hour preconference workshop on message-passing at the Syracuse University FC conference (May, 2000), we attempted to incorporate many of these approaches.  A structure was followed in which FC users and their facilitators were instructed concerning the universality of message-passing as a communication skill.  FC users were then given the opportunity to choose among eight different message-passing tasks, two of which are reproduced below (Fig. 1 and 2).   Work was done in threesomes which included one facilitator for practice, and another coming in later to be both  facilitator and receiver of the message being passed.   Under these conditions, within that single 3-hour workshop, seven of the 11 FC users were able to pass on information unknown to their facilitators, in ways they had not demonstrated previous to that workshop.  Although it's not clear why so many people were successful in such a short period of time, it seems that the group process which provided an opportunity to see other people working on similar issues in a supportive setting contributed both motivation and safety to the practice for many people.
 
Figure 1 
MESSAGE PASSING 
PRACTICE #1 
OBJECT NAMING
Materials: Bag of 13 "things," bag or box to hide one in 
Instructions
  1. Have facilitator #1 leave the room.
  2. Facilitator #2 and FC user pick an object from the bag, and put the rest away.  They handle the object, and have a conversation about it, then put it into the "hiding box." 
  3. (Optional)  Facilitator #2 and FC user practice what FC user will type about the thing.
  4. Facilitator #1 is brought back into the room.
  5. Facilitator #2 asks "leading questions," helping the FC user to tell Facilitator #1 what is in the ""hiding box."
  6. Facilitator #2 keeps conversation about object going, until FC user says s/he is finished, or until Facilitator #1 guesses what's in the box.
  7. All 3 read what has been typed, look in box together, discuss results. 
 
Figure 2 
MESSAGE PASSING 
PRACTICE #1 
WORD REPETITION

Materials: 60 numbered strips, each with a 3-6 letter word. 
Instructions

  1. Have facilitator #1 leave the room.
  2. Facilitator #2 shows or reads one of the words to the FC user.
  3. (Optional) FC user is cued by Facilitator #2 to practice typing the word.
  4. Facilitator #1 is brought back into the room.
  5. Facilitator #1 cues FC user to type the word s/he was shown.
  6. (Optional) Facilitator #2 provides feedback on whether the words typed is right, right but misspelled, starts with the right letter, a previous word but not the current word, etc.
  7. Facilitator #1 finds out if FC user has given "final answer."
  8. All 3 check word strip together, discuss results.

Facilitator support for acquisition of message-passing skills

When new facilitators are trained, they are taught that facilitation includes support in many forms, not only physical support of the FC user's hand or arm.  All of the forms of support which comprise facilitated communication are involved as the facilitator assists the FC user in acquiring message-passing skills.  These forms of support include As we describe the ways in which the facilitator supports the FC user in acquiring message-passing skills, it's useful to consider each of these in turn, as a way of showing that work on message-passing skills is not terribly different from other empowering practice activities typically engaged in by FC users and their facilitators.  The skills required to support such practice are largely those already used by effective, experienced facilitators.
Physical support. Emotional support Structural support Advocacy support

Conclusion

Five years ago, only a handful of FC users in North America had learned to type with minimal or no physical support.  For most other FC users at the time, that ability seemed like a far-fetched fantasy, and encouragement to work toward independence felt to some people like pressure to do the impossible.  As more and more FC users have increased their level of independence, it has come to seem more possible for others as well.

Message-passing has for too long been considered the property of the critics who dismiss all facilitated communication as illusory.  Increasingly, FC users are mastering message-passing skills as part of their own empowered communication.  It is our hope that FC users and facilitators will work on the details of reliable message-passing in the same routine, matter-of-fact way that they now work on decreasing physical support.
 

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